Alphas

Alpha females such as myself do not need a submissive man or an alpha male. What they need is a combination of qualities in a man.

As an alpha female, I prefer to tackle my problems head on. I don’t have time for whining and complaining about my problems. Aside from the occational blog post LOL. Alpha women need help every once in a while. A man dating an alpha woman should know when his woman needs him to step in and help her. And  he should offer a helping hand or at least give her inspiration. Not mock or belittle her. Bad idea.

You should look for a man who celebrates you instead of getting jealous or intimidated by it. When you're at a party and guys start hitting on you, he shouldn’t start acting like a raging bitch because he knows you have limits and boundaries. He knows the last thing you would do is to leave him for some random flirt. 

Of course as an alpha female I like teaching. I'm my own boss; a leader. But I need to also be humble and willing to learn from my man. Besides, I don’t know everything. Never claimed I did.

I might be the head bitch in charge of my life but when you do some b.s he doesn’t like, he won’t be afraid to tell me. And I appreciate that. More importantly, he knows how to handle me at my worst. 

When a guy knows he is right he will stand his ground but when he's wrong, he will own it and apologize. He knows that you are strong willed and there are bound to be differences in opinion from time to time. But he should be smart enough to know which issues to pursue and which ones to drop. As should the female of course.

Alpha females are terribly misunderstood and it might be a challenge for them to find the right man for them. But when they find a man with all the qualities mentioned here, they treasure him dearly. But fuck one over and you are toast. See ya. Catch ya later. 

Wow, that sounded real bad ass didn't it. I wish this was 100% true but I am quite sensitive as you probably get if you read my blog a while. And goofy. But as I said above Alpha females are often very misunderstood and instead of seeing through the tough and hard exterior we get judged in a way we don't deserve. 

 

Don't I look gangsta??? lol

 

 

 

 

Ain't no MotherF^$%@# living in my head no more

Be positive

“Forgive others. Not because they deserve it, but because you deserve peace.”

Have had a quiet weekend. Been working all week while having the boys. Had a girl chat with Malin on Friday night and the kids of course. Had dinner and some drinks in the sun. Well needed. Been trying to get information about visas to the promised land. Seriously retarded rules and most of them makes absolutely no sense at all. With that said I told you in my previous post about me giving this relationship another go, I might have to eat my words and it kinda looks like I have to. Just drained with some of the things I have to deal with. I've always tried to be a positive person with a lot of love for most people. I try to not linger as I can't change the past nor a person. Love is what makes life worth living. Sorry for sounding corny but I believe that's true. If not I'd be dead and buried years ago. 

When we come into this world, we have no concept of the negative such as pain, deceit, or betrayal. We retain these feelings as we navigate through our lives and they build up over time if we fail to look within and clear our energy and bodies of these toxic thoughts. Holding grudges can literally make us sick. Both mentally and physically.

My next project?? Birthday ink :)

Wishing harm upon others will actually only destroy you in the end. Think about it – when you send out negative vibes into the universe, you lower your own vibration, therefore inviting bad karma in. You attract what you are, so by seeking revenge, you only perpetuate the pain you feel in your own life. This is very real for a certain someone in my life. And if that person wants to remain in my life things has to change. Fast! You won’t feel free until you surrender to love, so you have to love those who caused you grief, as hard as it might seem. I've managed to do that. Not that it has been easy, I would lie if I said it was. But I've learned that grudges only poisons my mind and it affects people around me. So I had to shape up and sort it. As you do! 

Oh well enough seriousness for tonight. I like to pick my own brain when my life is a bit unbalanced. As you know if you are a follower of this blog. If this is your first time...welcome. I'm not a complete nut case. Crazy, sure. But good crazy. Hope you come visit me again :) 

I am going to bed to cuddle with the boys in my life. I'm really blessed to have such fantastic boys. 

Smile and be happy, it's a sweet life

This song hit straight home.
I am a huge lyrics junkie and at this moment I just connect so much with this song.
Not only is Jessie J THE best female singer I've heard in a long time she is such a positive person too.
Not to mention insanly beautiful.